“I AM NOT HERE”

SEXUAL BONDAGE IS NOT ABOUT SEX IT IS ABOUT MEDICATING YOUR WOUNDS.

RIGHT.

AND MY MORNING COMMUTE IS NOT ABOUT DRIVING, IT'S ABOUT HOW I GET TO WORK.

In my own example I am unable to talk about mistresses because I never went beyond the porn stage. But I can tell you any time my penis ejactulated in my wife's vagina sex was involved.

I don’t know what brand of psychology concludes that ejaculating in a woman’s vagina is not sex, but I wouldn’t give much weight to anything ‘clinically informed’ by it